In the next few weeks, I saw Denise and Kristie get spanked during trips to the grocery store, the mall and the movie theatre, as well as the playground. Interestingly, neither of the girls seemed to feel any sense of embarrassment about it. They talked about their spankings very matter-of-factly, and did not think it unusual to be spanked in front of strangers. United States: TV news report (Feb 2015) about an (unsuccessful) attempt to abolish school paddling in Tennessee.

Some clients have implements that are sentimental favorites, while others have aversions to certain implements rooted in deep trauma. I’m sensitive to your experiences and what’s shaped them so that we can work to create the safest and most effective discipline experience possible. The application process includes getting a sense of any particular preferences you have, as well as any implements that will be considered “hard limits” and never used.TV news item from 2006 about allegations that a basketball coach at a high school in Virginia (where CP is banned in public schools) made members of the team take turns to spank one of their number. A further follow-up to the previous two items. TV news report from Memphis school board town-hall meeting in July 2007 over continuing controversy about the Blue Ribbon Plan, which abolished CP. Speakers at the meeting are seen calling for the return of the paddle, and the reporter waves a paddle around for the camera. When I got within arm’s reach of Kate, she pulled me across her lap and began spanking me with her hand, even harder and faster than she had spanked the girls. I am sure that I got the most spanks of any of us that day.

Five clips from Texas, four of them covering a controversy about male administrators spanking girls, the other from a district where paddling is alive and well and everybody is happy.

United States: TV news report (May 2015) on contrasting paddling policies in two Texas school districts. I was terrified of having anyone know that I was being sparked and she said if I violated rules with other present that she would take me someplace and blister me even if others could hear. United States: TV news report (June 2013) about a proposal to reintroduce the punishment paddle in a Texas school district that had abolished it five years previously.

South Korea: Eleven real-life clips of schoolboys receiving discipline across the seat of their trousers. A more general piece about paddling in certain East Texas school districts, and what people think about it.Go ahead, squirm in that chair. It's not going to get you out of the spanking. It's not going to get you out of doing the emotional work around why you are about to be spanked and how things will be changing moving forward.